… im gonna speak hypothetically here:
what if you met a guy you really liked, ended up pregnant but things soured between you two. You discuss options, parenting together, co-parenting, adoption and abortion. You feel that your not ready to be a parent and decide to have the pregnancy terminated.The father, however, wants to keep the child and is willing to take on full parental responsibility and custody of the child, you would have no obligations to the child. what would you do?
i wonder about this because I always hear the argument that if you don’t have a vagina you can’t have a say in a woman’s right to choose or not choose and abortion. I disagree with that and find it sexist because not only does it give men and easy out from the jump but I also assumes that men can’t have a woman’s best interest at heart or feel a connection to an unborn child.
what about if you and guy agreed from day one that if your relations resulted in a pregnancy that you would not keep the child. yet when you do end up pregnant, you change your mind and decide to keep the child. Should he have to pay child support or acknowledge the child?
i don’t really know the point of this but the message is:
ladies - be more choosey of who you sleep with…. before you let them in, imagine them as your baby daddy…